From Pain to Purpose: 12-Week Transformation Journey

The Life Assignment Coaching and Consulting

A Faith-Based, Trauma-Informed Coaching Program for Women Transforming Betrayal into Breakthrough

This Is Your Journey IF…

  • You feel shattered by betrayal and struggle to trust yourself and others again.

  • You’re ready to let go of shame and reclaim your confidence and power.

  • You want to turn your pain into a purpose that fuels your life and career.

This Isn’t Your Path IF…

  • You’re unwilling to commit to doing deep, inner work.

  • You’re not ready to face and process the emotions tied to your trauma.

  • You prefer staying stuck in the narrative of blame without seeking change.

Program Foundation: The Four Pillars

Every module integrates these proven transformation tools:

📖 Scripture as Compass - Biblical truth that informs and transforms pain into wisdom

🙏 Prayer as Incubator - Spiritual power to embrace change without fear

🔍 Research as Leverage - Evidence-based knowledge and diverse perspectives

📋 Project Management as Structure - Strategic framework for personal transformation

  • MODULE 1: Grounding and Clarity

    Take control of the chaos and chart your emotional state with tools to help you find clarity and prioritize what you need most.


    In this breakthrough session you'll achieve:
    Understand and map your emotional state to reduce chaos.
    Pinpoint immediate needs to create a strong foundation.
    Gain clarity using journaling and inventory exercises.
  • MODULE 2: Emotional Processing

    Work through your pain with techniques that release heavy feelings like anger, shame, or sadness for healthier emotional balance.


    By the end of this session, you will:
    Let go of shame, anger, and sadness through structured release.
    Build self-acceptance with targeted emotional techniques.
    Take control of overwhelming feelings for healthier balance.
  • MODULE 3: Identity Reclamation

    Rebuild your confidence, rediscover your worth, and reconnect with the strong, authentic version of yourself.


    In this module, you will:
    Reclaim your self-worth through confidence-building exercises.
    Rediscover your identity and affirm your personal values.
    Strengthen leadership qualities while redefining your self-image.
  • MODULE 4: Navigating Relationships

    Heal broken trust and set boundaries with strategies that help you build healthy, thriving personal and work relationships.


    This module will guide you to:
    Rebuild trust in relationships with practical tools.
    Set healthy boundaries for personal and professional connections.
    Improve communication for more meaningful interactions.
  • MODULE 5: Mindset Reset

    Shift limiting beliefs, conquer fears, and rewire your thoughts for positivity and growth in every area of your life.


    During this module, you will:
    Identify belief patterns that limit your personal growth.
    Replace negative thoughts with empowering affirmations.
    Form a positive mindset to step into new opportunities.
  • MODULE 6: Purpose Excavation

    Uncover your passions, define your purpose, and build a road map to a meaningful, purpose-driven life.


    This powerful session teaches you to:
    Reconnect with passions that light you up.
    Define a meaningful purpose aligned with your strengths.
    Create a plan for a life driven by fulfillment and impact.
  • MODULE 7: Resilience Building

    Boost your strength and prepare for life’s challenges with proven tools to help you rise after any setback.


    This module focuses on helping you:
    Strengthen your emotional defenses to handle setbacks.
    Prepare for challenges with proven resilience tools.
    Empower yourself with strategies to bounce back stronger.
  • MODULE 8: Integration of Lessons

    Use hands-on strategies and accountability to apply your new skills and tools to your daily life with ease.


    This module is designed to help you:
    Turn insights into action with practical learning exercises.
    Apply tools to daily routines for lasting transformation.
    Partner with accountability systems to stay on the path.
  • MODULE 9: Professional Empowerment

    Grow your career or business by defining your strengths, aligning with your purpose, and boosting your leadership confidence.


    Together in this session we'll:
    Assess strengths to align your career with your purpose.
    Define a meaningful purpose aligned with your strengths.
    Create clear growth plans for business and career success.
  • MODULE 10: Balanced Living Practices

    Create sustainable routines and wellness practices that bring balance to your work, relationships, and self-care.


    In this session, you’ll focus on:
    Design a balanced life with stress-management strategies.
    Create harmony between work, wellbeing, and relationships.
    Adopt wellness rituals that fit your lifestyle seamlessly.
  • MODULE 11: Purposeful Profit Strategy

    Turn your newly found purpose into a profitable and impactful venture with actionable business plans and strategies.


    After working through this session, you will:
    Structure purpose for real, meaningful profit.
    Plan practical steps to create an impactful business.
    Build financial pathways to sustain purposeful success.
  • MODULE 12: Celebration, Reflection, and Growth Blueprint

    Honor your transformation, celebrate your growth, and leave with a personalized plan for long-term success and fulfillment.


    In this final week, you'll:
    Reflect on milestones and honor your progress.
    Celebrate your transformation story and growth.
    Plan for continuous success with a guided blueprint.

  • PHASE 1: FOUNDATION - Face Your Pain Story (Weeks 1-3)

    Bi-Weekly 60-Minute Sessions

  • MODULE 1: Acknowledging Your Pain Story - Grounding and Clarity
    Core Truth: “Your pain story has lessons to teach you. Before we can extract them, we must first name them.”

     Take control of emotional chaos by creating a safe space to honestly examine your pain story without judgment or shame. Using trauma-informed techniques and spiritual grounding, you’ll map your emotional landscape and identify immediate needs.
    In this breakthrough session you’ll achieve:
    Chart your current emotional state using evidence-based assessment tools to reduce internal chaos
    Identify and prioritize immediate emotional, spiritual, and practical needs
    Create a personalized “Pain Story Inventory” through guided journaling that honors your experience
    Establish Scripture-based anchors for emotional safety and spiritual grounding
    Develop a prayer practice for processing difficult emotions
    Clinical Outcomes:
    Reduced emotional overwhelm through structured narrative processing
    Increased self-awareness of trauma responses and triggers
    Established baseline emotional assessment for measuring progress
    Your Unique Breakthrough:
    You’ll begin to see your pain not as something to escape, but as a story with valuable lessons waiting to be discovered.
  • MODULE 2: Assessing the Damage - Emotional Processing and Truth-Telling
    Core Truth: “We cannot heal what we refuse to feel. Assessment requires brutal honesty about how betrayal has shaped us.”

    Work through layers of pain including anger, shame, grief, and sadness using trauma-informed emotional release techniques. Examine how betrayal trauma has impacted your beliefs, behaviors, relationships, and self-image.
    By the end of this session, you will:
    Process complex emotions (rage, shame, grief) through structured, faith-informed release techniques
    Assess the full impact of betrayal on your identity, relationships, and worldview
    Identify maladaptive coping mechanisms and survival strategies that no longer serve you
    Build self-compassion and self-acceptance through Scripture-based truth declarations
    Create an honest “Damage Assessment” inventory of what needs healing and what needs releasing
    Clinical Outcomes:
    Decreased shame and self-blame through externalization of trauma impact
    Improved emotional regulation skills for processing difficult feelings
    Enhanced insight into trauma-informed behavioral patterns
    Your Unique Breakthrough:
    You’ll discover that acknowledging the full extent of your pain is not weakness—it’s the first step toward extracting its purpose.
  • MODULE 3: Accepting Your Reality - Identity Reclamation
    Core Truth: “Acceptance is not agreement. It’s the courage to say ‘this happened’ and the power to say ‘it doesn’t define me.’”

    Move from denial and resistance to acceptance and empowerment. Rebuild confidence, reclaim your worth, and reconnect with the authentic woman God created you to be—separate from the betrayal that happened to you.
    In this module, you will:
    Practice radical acceptance of your past while rejecting false identity labels
    Reclaim your God-given worth through identity-affirming Scripture and exercises
    Separate what happened TO you from who you ARE (trauma vs. identity work)
    Rediscover your core values, strengths, and authentic self apart from the relationship
    Establish healthy boundaries between your pain story and your identity story
    Clinical Outcomes:
    Reduced cognitive dissonance through acceptance-based therapeutic techniques
    Strengthened sense of self separate from traumatic experiences
    Improved self-worth through values clarification and affirmation practices
    Your Unique Breakthrough:
    You’ll make peace with your past and gain readiness to create your future from a place of wholeness, not woundedness.

  • PHASE 2: EXTRACTION - Mine Your Pain for Purpose (Weeks 4-6)

    Bi-Weekly 60-Minute Sessions

  • MODULE 4: Extracting the Lessons - Navigating Relationships and Trust
    Core Truth: “Every pain story teaches you something. The question is: what has yours taught you about love, trust, boundaries, and your non-negotiables?”

    Mine your betrayal experience for wisdom about relationships, trust, boundaries, and authentic connection. Extract valuable insights that will protect and empower you in all future relationships.
    This module will guide you to:
    Extract specific lessons about red flags, intuition, and self-trust from your experience
    Identify what betrayal taught you about healthy vs. unhealthy relationship patterns
    Rebuild capacity for trust using research-based trust restoration frameworks
    Establish non-negotiable boundaries for personal and professional relationships
    Develop communication skills rooted in authenticity and self-respect
    Clinical Outcomes:
    Enhanced ability to identify healthy relationship dynamics
    Improved boundary-setting skills with clinical assertiveness training
    Restored capacity for vulnerability through graduated exposure to trust
    Your Unique Breakthrough:
    You’ll realize your pain has made you a wisdom-keeper—you now know things about relationships that most people never learn.
  • MODULE 5: Identifying Your Gifts - Mindset Reset and Empowerment
    Core Truth: “Your struggles have forged strengths you didn’t know you had. These are your superpowers.”

    Discover the unique gifts, abilities, and strengths that were developed through your pain journey. Shift limiting beliefs, conquer fears, and identify how your trauma has equipped you to serve others in powerful ways.
    During this module, you will:
    Identify specific strengths forged through surviving and processing your trauma (resilience, discernment, compassion, courage)
    Reframe your pain story from “what broke me” to “what made me stronger”
    Replace trauma-based limiting beliefs with empowering, Scripture-affirmed truths
    Recognize your unique capacity to understand and help others facing similar pain
    Develop a growth mindset for stepping into new opportunities and possibilities
    Clinical Outcomes:
    Cognitive restructuring of negative self-beliefs using CBT techniques
    Increased self-efficacy through strengths-based assessment
    Enhanced post-traumatic growth recognition and integration
    Your Unique Breakthrough:
    You’ll see yourself not as a victim, but as a victor with gifts that can change lives—including your own.
  • MODULE 6: Uncovering Your Passion - Purpose Excavation
    Core Truth: “Once you learn the lessons, a new passion is birthed. This passion becomes fuel for your purpose.”

    Reconnect with what ignites your soul and discover how your pain story connects to your deepest passions. Define a meaningful, God-given purpose aligned with your authentic strengths and the wisdom you’ve gained.
    This powerful session teaches you to:
    Reconnect with passions that light you up and give you energy (even after trauma)
    Identify the intersection between your pain lessons and your natural gifts
    Distinguish between forgiveness and reconciliation
    Define a clear, compelling purpose statement that integrates your transformation story
    Explore how your specific betrayal experience positions you to serve others uniquely
    Create a vision for a purpose-driven life rooted in healing and service
    Clinical Outcomes:
    Clarified sense of meaning and purpose through narrative therapy
    Increased motivation through purpose-alignment exercises
    Enhanced life satisfaction via values-based goal setting
    Your Unique Breakthrough:
    You’ll discover that your pain wasn’t random—it prepared you for a purpose only you can fulfill.

  • PHASE 3: TRANSFORMATION - Turn Purpose into Profit and Impact (Weeks 7-12)

    Bi-Weekly 60-Minute Sessions

  • MODULE 7: Defining Your Purpose - Resilience Building and Future Vision
    Core Truth: “Your purpose is the gift your pain has prepared you to give the world.”

    Crystallize your unique mission and build the emotional resilience needed to sustain it. Prepare for challenges while designing a compelling vision of your purpose-driven future.
    This module focuses on helping you:
    Define a clear, actionable purpose statement that honors your transformation journey
    Strengthen emotional resilience using faith-based and evidence-based tools
    Develop strategies for handling setbacks, triggers, and future challenges
    Create a detailed vision of what your purpose-driven life looks like
    Establish spiritual practices that sustain you during difficult seasons
    Clinical Outcomes:
    Enhanced stress tolerance through resilience skill-building
    Developed proactive coping strategies for managing future adversity
    Clarified long-term vision with concrete visualization techniques
    Your Unique Breakthrough:
    You’ll have a purpose that energizes you and the resilience to sustain it through any obstacle.
  • MODULE 8: Designing Your Sacred Capitalism Strategy - Integration of Lessons
    Core Truth: “Sacred Capitalism is turning your transformation story into both impact and income—serving the world while sustaining yourself.”

    Apply hands-on strategies to monetize your pain-to-purpose story. Learn how to package your wisdom, lessons, and gifts into offers that serve others while generating income.
    This module is designed to help you:
    Integrate your transformation insights into marketable expertise and authority
    Design offers (coaching, speaking, writing, courses) based on your unique story
    Apply your purpose to daily business-building activities with accountability systems
    Position yourself as an expert in your specific niche (betrayal recovery, faith-based healing, etc.)
    Create ethical, authentic ways to profit from helping others through similar pain
    Clinical Outcomes:
    Practical application of therapeutic insights to real-world contexts
    Increased sense of agency through entrepreneurial skill development
    Enhanced meaning-making through service-based business planning
    Your Unique Breakthrough:
    You’ll see how to turn your pain into both purpose AND profit—transforming wounds into wisdom that serves and sustains.
  • MODULE 9: Deploying Your Gifts - Professional Empowerment
    Core Truth: “Your pain has equipped you to serve at levels you never imagined. Now it’s time to step into that calling.”

    Grow your career, business, or ministry by aligning your professional life with your purpose. Develop leadership confidence and create clear growth plans that honor your transformation story.
    Together in this session we’ll:
    Assess professional strengths and align them with your God-given purpose
    Create a strategic career or business growth plan based on your niche expertise
    Develop leadership presence and confidence rooted in your transformation authority
    Position your pain-to-purpose story as your unique professional differentiator
    Build systems for delivering your gifts through coaching, ministry, or other service
    Clinical Outcomes:
    Enhanced career satisfaction through purpose-alignment
    Improved professional self-concept and leadership identity
    Developed concrete action plans with measurable milestones
    Your Unique Breakthrough:
    You’ll actively engage in purpose-driven work that uses your specific pain story to create transformation for others.
  • MODULE 10: Sustaining Your Transformation - Balanced Living Practices
    Core Truth: “Transformation requires sustainable practices. You can’t pour from an empty cup.”

    Create routines and wellness practices that bring balance to work, relationships, spiritual life, and self-care. Build systems that keep you aligned with your purpose without burning out.
    In this session, you’ll focus on:
    Design a balanced life integrating work, ministry, relationships, and self-care
    Create stress-management strategies rooted in Scripture and clinical best practices
    Establish wellness rituals (spiritual, physical, emotional) that fit your lifestyle
    Build sustainable habits that support continued healing and growth
    Develop early warning systems for recognizing when you’re slipping into old patterns
    Clinical Outcomes:
    Improved work-life balance through structured time management
    Enhanced self-care practices using holistic wellness frameworks
    Reduced burnout risk through preventive stress management
    Your Unique Breakthrough:
    You’ll have sustainable systems that allow you to serve powerfully without sacrificing your own well-being.
  • MODULE 11: Scaling Your Impact - Purposeful Profit Strategy
    Core Truth: “Enterprise is how we make meaning from pain. Your business becomes your ministry.”

    Turn your purpose into profitable, scalable impact. Develop business plans, pricing strategies, and marketing approaches that honor both your calling and your need for financial sustainability.
    After working through this session, you will:
    Structure your purpose-driven offer into a profitable business model (1:1, group, courses, writing a book, speaking, other ministry)
    Create practical business plans with financial projections for sustainable income
    Develop pricing strategies that honor your worth and serve your ideal clients
    Build marketing and messaging rooted in your authentic transformation story
    Establish financial pathways that allow you to serve full-time in your purpose
    Clinical Outcomes:
    Increased financial literacy and business acumen
    Enhanced goal-setting capabilities with SMART objectives
    Developed sustainable revenue models supporting long-term purpose work
    Your Unique Breakthrough:
    You’ll have a clear path to turning your transformation into both meaningful impact and reliable income—true Sacred Capitalism.
  • MODULE 12: Honoring Your Journey - Celebration, Reflection, and Growth Blueprint
    Core Truth: “Every pain story has lessons. You’ve learned yours. Now you’re ready to release your gift to the world.”

    Honor your transformation, celebrate milestones, and create a personalized blueprint for continued growth and long-term success. Leave equipped to sustain your purpose-driven life.
    In this final week, you’ll:
    Reflect on your complete pain-to-purpose journey and acknowledge growth milestones
    Celebrate your transformation story and how far you’ve come from Week 1
    Create a personalized “Growth Blueprint” for continuing your evolution beyond the program
    Identify next steps for expanding your impact and scaling your purpose-driven business
    Receive prayer, blessing, and commissioning for the purpose you’re now stepping into
    Clinical Outcomes:
    Consolidated therapeutic gains through structured reflection
    Enhanced self-efficacy through achievement recognition
    Developed long-term maintenance plan preventing relapse
    Your Unique Breakthrough:
    You’ll complete this journey not just healed, but positioned to use your pain story as your greatest professional and spiritual asset.

What Makes This Program Different

Faith-Based Foundation:

Every module integrates Scripture, prayer, and biblical truth—not as add-ons, but as core transformation tools.

Betrayal Trauma Expertise:

Designed specifically for women navigating relationship betrayal, undisclosed same-sex attraction, and hidden lives that shattered everything they believed.

Pain-to-Purpose Methodology:

Unique framework that doesn’t just heal pain—it extracts lessons, identifies gifts, and transforms trauma into purposeful impact.

Sacred Capitalism Integration:

Teaches you to monetize your transformation story ethically and authentically, turning pain into both purpose AND profit.

Lived Experience Authority:

Created by someone who walked this exact journey—from devastating betrayal to thriving purpose-driven business and ministry.

Clinical Excellence:

Combines trauma-informed therapy techniques, evidence-based practices, and structured outcomes with faith-based healing.

Program Foundation: The Four Pillars

Every module integrates these proven transformation tools:

📖 Scripture as Compass - Biblical truth that informs and transforms pain into wisdom

🙏 Prayer as Incubator - Spiritual power to embrace change without fear

🔍 Research as Leverage - Evidence-based knowledge and diverse perspectives

📋 Project Management as Structure - Strategic framework for personal transformation

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My Coaching Approach:

Step 1
HEAL
Break free from the emotional weight of betrayal to find inner peace.
Step 2
RECLAIM
Restore your confidence and rediscover your unique strengths.
Step 3
THRIVE
Turn your pain into purpose and create a life of success and fulfillment.

Program Investment: $2,497

Includes:

12 private 1:1 coaching sessions (6 weekly, then 3 bi-weekly)

Complete session recordings and transcripts

Unlimited email support between sessions

3 emergency “Lifeline” calls (15 minutes each)

Personalized homework and transformation assignments

Four-pillar methodology tools and resources

Ready to Transform Your Pain into Purpose?

Your pain story has been preparing you for something powerful. Let’s discover it together.

Schedule Your Discovery Call Today.

"…troubles can develop passionate patience in us, and how that patience in turn forges the tempered steel of virtue…"

—Romans 5:3b-4a MSG